Parking Ticket

Hey friends,

I got a parking ticket on my car in the morning as I left. I was so upset because in the 10 years of my driving, I have never received a parking ticket, a fine or even an accident. I was so proud of my skills as a competent driver, never even getting something as minor as a fender bender. I think it has something to do with my motor and observational skills compensating for my loss of hearing. You know how they say blind people have a better sense of smell. One of the senses makes up for the loss of another sense.

Anyways, back to the traffic fine ticket. It’s all in Arabic, being in Sharjah, its understandable. But EVERYTHING is in Arabic. How am I supposed to know why I am fined? I went to the Sharjah Police website to feed in my fine number and it shows up as saying that the record is not on file. So, in other words, I am not fined or what? I had someone check this parking ticket, and he said it’s not even your car. This ticket is for a car from Khorfakkan, and even the license plate number is not matching up to yours. So how come I saw this wedged between my windshielf and wiper? Maybe someone else stuck it up here from their car.

Phew, I was so relieved. So this ticket turned out to be some other car and not mine as the license plate noted on the ticket doesnt match to mine. I can now go back to saying that I am fine-tickets free now.

Mansur

UPDATE: the ticket is for my car, however, the police officer wrote down the wrong numbers off the licence plate. Silly him. Now I don’t know if I should pay or not.

Published in: on December 28, 2006 at 6:57 am Leave a Comment

Hands Full

Hey friends,

Here is what I did with my cousin yesterday.

1. Went to Global Village, as part of Dubai Shopping festival, to the booth at the Pakistani pavilion, where we sorted out the merchandise.
2. Walked around the Global Village, visiting the different countries pavilions. Some were really disappointing, while others were interesting.
2.5 Played hand games, and won nothing.
3. Went to Mall of Emirates.
4. Tried out the racing simulation game, complete on massive hydraulics with three tv screens around us giving us a very realistic sensation of racing in a real environment. My cousin beat me in the race.
5. Played two games of bowling.
6. Drove to Ibn Battuta Mall, and watched Eragon.
7. Had my favortie chocolate crepes, which they delivered to us inside the cinema..

I know it seems pretty boring, but actually turned out be a lot of fun!

Mansur

Published in: on December 27, 2006 at 7:50 am Comments (1)

DIFF Salutes Shahrukh Khan

Hey friends,

Hands up all you who don’t know who ShahRukh Khan is? He is the current King Khan of Bollywood, and he was here recently in Dubai for the Dubai International Film Festival. My sister is a die hard fan of his, as are almost every other female, and she insisted I take her to the venue to see him live in person. While I am not a huge fan of SRK (I prefer Aamir Khan- of Lagaan, Dil Chahta and Rang De Basanti fame), I still took my sister because all nice brothers do.

Having called up the Madinat Jumeirah Box Office days before the show, they promised me the tickets will be available on the same day before the event. On the morning of the event, my sister and I got dressed up and drove over to Madinat Jumeirah. Somehow I was not as excited as she was. Arriving at the box office, we were told that the tickets are completely sold out. I was not susprised at the poor customer service. I knew something like this would happen. They assured us that while they said tickets were available in the morning, they will still be available at 3pm. Dubai is famous for mismanagment everywhere, and it was becoming very evident here as the organizers were shouting here and there, pushing and shoving people around, not setting up the stand by queues well, showing a complete sense of mismanagement and disorganized. We were made to stand in the stand by queue and thankfully my sister and I were the first one.

There were people with complimentary passes who were smirking at us as they made their way in. It was becoming obvious on their faces that they showed some sense of superiority over us who were standing in the stand by queue. Again, another sign of the fakeness of Dubai people. Soon we saw about 10 local arab girls, completely covered in abayas and holding digital camers and autograph books in hand, asking the organizers to let them just take pictures and get his autograpghs. “Ma’am, you have to pay 200dhs to get in.” No, they didn’t want to pay. They just wanted to take pictures. They were refused, and so all 10 of them stood in line before us. Such dedication from local fans towards SRK. Thankfully, at 3pm, we managed to get our tickets and made our way in.

The show started late (does anything ever start on time in Dubai?). When it was advertised everywhere as 3pm, and requested everyone to show up on time, the show started about 30 minutes lates. We were shown initially a montage of SRK’s famous film moments and dialogue, and while watching that, I realized how accomplished of an actor he is. The host came up and narrated to us SRK’s parents love story, which was indeed very heart felt, and little bit about his upbringing. SRK parents died before he reached his stardom, and he wishes his parents were still alive to have seen him hit such levels of fame.

Soon, SRK came on stage from the side, and whole auditorium erupted in applause, whistling and name calling. I don’t know what it was, but SRK was emanating such a strong energy in the auditorium I actually got goosebumps, and I am not even a huge fan of his. Even the host talked about his spiritual energy emanating from him and I realized what the host meant. SRK was given his first international film award by the president of the Dubai International Film Festival.

As soon as SRK sat down, Riz Khan, the ex-anchor of CNN, showed up for a casual question and answer session. I won’t get into the whole thing, but there three people that stood out from the audience. One were two sisters, complete in hijab and abayas, screaming out in delight how they are the number one fans and how they want to take pictures with him in between the two sisters. They were just too hilarious. The second person was a women my sister and I befriended, who was from Lahore (Go Lahore!) and she told SRK how much he was welcome to come to Pakistan and honor the country with his presence. Amidst his inshallahs, SRK said he has some extended family in Pakistan and he looks forward to coming to Pak. The third person, who was also from Lahore, grabbed hold of the microphone, and accused SRK of acting in films whose storylines were taken directly off old Pakistani films. “I can tell you right here, right now all of the Pakistani movies from which you have stole the film from.” He trailed on and on, to the point where my sister got infuriated and shouted at him to stop this nonsense and grabbed hold of his microphone. Such an embarrasing character.

In short, the event lasted not even an hour, and while it was awesome seeing SRK in person, and getting me to develop a huge admiration for him as an actor and a person, I was disappointed at the management of the festival and the unprofessionalism. Poor organization. Late start. Over priced tickets for less than 60 minutes show. Giving wrong information over hotline. It will be ages before Dubai can be on the world map of film festivals. Come on Dubai, if you want to be on the same stage as Cannes and Venice film festivals, you really need to get your act together.

Mansur

Published in: on December 26, 2006 at 9:04 am Comments (5)

Happy Christmas

Hello friends,

Happy Christmas to everyone who is celebrating this occasion today. I checked up the history of Christmas on Wikipedia and found out lots of fascinating tid-bits about Christmas. Christianity Today also have some articles about Christmas. However, one of the facts that caught me by surprise was that “December 25 as a birthdate for Jesus is merely traditional, and is not widely considered to be his actual date of birth.” Here’s another article which talks about how Christmas was never meant to be on December 25th.

I remember when I was in Jeddah Prep, which was a British school in Jeddah, every December we would have a Christmas play in which entire class would perform. I can clearly remember my parents coming to one show where my class sang Christmas songs on stage. I don’t remember what the songs were but I remember singing out words like Bethlehem, Jesus, Mary, Virgin and Star. I also remember another year, my class did the “On the first day of Christmas, my true love gave to me…” song, and I was one of the Turtle Doves, all dressed up.

However, the coolest thing was that Santa Clause would come and visit us in our classrooms, complete in his red suit, with black belt, red cap, white beard and a large sack of toys. When I would get my toy, I would be in such awe because it would exactly be the toy that I told my parents I wanted a week ago. It was later on in 5th grade where the secret connection between Santa and my parents was exposed and Santa was no more real to me anymore. :-)

By the way, December 25th each year is a public holiday in Pakistan because it is also the birth date of Mohammad Ali Jinnah, the founder of Pakistan. (Funnily enough, his death happened on September 11th.)

Xmas tree, Mina Salam, Dubai

(courtesy of Pbase.com, Brian McMorrow)

So happy Christmas to everyone celebrating it today and a very happy new year.

Mansur

Published in: on December 25, 2006 at 8:21 am Leave a Comment

Saudi Marriages end in Divorces

Hey friends,

Just browsing randomly online through the gulf newspapers, I was startled to read two articles on similair topics: marriages in Saudi Arabia. While one article talks about the alarming increase in divorces- 1 in 4 marriages end in divorce - the other article talks about how the lawmakers- men always- allow for new policies to be legalized to allow the local men to have various kind of marriages, including the weekend and friendship marriages (as quoted from Emirates Today that unfortunately don’t have an archives section as of yet online). The point being made that Saudi lawmakers, both religious and liberals, are passing fatwas and laws to allow for men to have marriages of convenience, and hurting the women’s life in the process.

I am sure everyone has heard of Misyar marriages, which “can be described as a legal framework of marriage in which a Muslim couple is united by the bonds of marriage, based on the usual Islamic marriage contract, but without the husband having to take the usual financial commitments with respect to his wife.” But what’s this new concept of weekend and friendship marriage?

And the real question is why are these marriages are failing? A lot of critics will indeed say its because of the cultural invasion from the West and the increasing freedoms the women in the kingdom are getting, but I think the issue stems from within the Kingdom. I don’t know the answer to this question, but there could be several factors. Arranged marriages could be one, with the young girl and guys unable to talk with their potential husbands/ wives before marrige. The concept of dating is nil. There are youths trying to hook up with girls/ guys through technology.

Will the society in the Kingdom allow for more freedom, or continue its way through restricting the contact between the sexes, possibly causing for these marriages to fail? Is there any connection between the freedom granted to women to work, thereby giving them more independence and assertiveness, causing for marriages to Saudi men to fail? I don’t know, and I am not sure we will get a definite and clear answer since there is no civic body to sit down and discuss and analyze this extremely worrying trend.

In America, 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. In Saudi Arabia, 1 in 4 marriages end in divorce.

Mansur

Published in: on December 24, 2006 at 7:03 am Comments (2)