Cocoo’s Den: Restaurant Review

One of the hidden secrets in Lahore is Cocoo’s Den. Cocoo’s Den is located in the Old Lahore, near the famous Badshahi Mosque and Lahore Fort. This part of Lahore is located in the ever so popular place, Heera Mandi, otherwise known as the Red Light Area, where the infamous Dancing Girls of Lahore preside (if you are interested, please read Dancing Girls of Lahore by Louise Brown- one part even mentions a dancing girl talking about her experiences with Sheikh Zayed from Abu Dhabi availing of the services in this area of Lahore). It was somewhat unrespectable to venture into this area of Lahore. Cocoo’s Den has changed all that and now people from the more affluent part of society indulge in this hidden charm.

I had the pleasure of going there for the first time ever, and I must say, dining out at Cocoo’s Den is more than just eating; it’s an experience. The drive into the area is an interesting one, as you battle the traffic, the horse and donkey carts, and drive into small streets.

 Ent CDThe entrance is far from grand. Check out the three small children on the balcony!

CD Signboard A signboard is simply the name painted on a white board.

ArtifactsEntering into the small room, it is evident that this place is owned by a painter, who has painted quite a lot of portraits of the various dancing girls, of which some were provocative enough to evoke a reaction. Other artifacts filled the room; paintings, furniture, hindu statues, tile works, wooden doors.

Portrait There are also many portraits of the dancing girls of Lahore, and all of them reflect a certain degree of sadness. These women are condemned and shunned, but no one ponders over the reality of the situation: these women don’t choose dancing and prostitution by choice but are rather forced into it given the dire circumstances they are put in.

To get to the restaurant itself, one has to climb quite a lot of steps, as the restaurant is on the roof (3rd floor). Small winding steps lead you up to the roof, and once you get there, the awesome view of the Badshahi Mosque is a view to grasp!

Eating at CDAbout 12 of us sat on a long table, and immediately ordered our food.

The waiters were attentive enough, and hurryingly took our orders down. They also set on our table the plates, cutlery and salad. We had to ask for for yoghurt (raita) and they gave us yoghurt in packets. It took a while for the food to come, but the view from the roof kept us all busy and chatting. A single lamp on our table (with a red colored paper wrapped around the bulb) illuminated the area. The lights did go off for about 30 minutes that plunged us into darkness. The full moon gave us enough light so it wasn’t all that bad.

The food was awesome, and we all dove into it immediately. The daal (lentils), chicken handi, kebabs, rice, brain masala all were mouth watering. The 3 different types of bread were freshly made (naan, paratha, roghni naan). We asked the waiters whether the food was made on the premises or ordered from outside, and he was clueless about it, which further fuelled our suspicion that the food is made off-premises. While we were eating, the waiter had forgotten to bring us the second plates of kebab and chops we ordered. He finally brought it when we were finishing off our meal, and we asked them to take it back and remove it from our order.

The dessert was gulab-jamun and firni. I had both, and I have to tell you how tasty and delicious the gulab jamun were! I never had any better than what I had here! The waiter bungled up our bill, as he failed to remove the two cancelled orders, and they were being somewhat rude in not removing these two very items. After calling in the manager, he finally agreed to remove the two items and made all of us happy.

Despite the somewhat inattentiveness of the waiters- manager too- dining out at Cocoo’s Den is an experience not to be missed. I would definitely go back to Cocoo’s Den, but not too often as the novelty of the experience may wear off!

badshahi mosqueThe entire experience of being transported back to Old Lahore is a strong and real experience: the pleasant weather, the awesome views, the traditional food, the bare minimum lighting and classical music playing in the background made dining out at Cocoo’s Den an experience for all senses!

Mansur

Published in: on November 30, 2007 at 7:16 pm Leave a Comment

Pakistani Wedding for Dummies

Hey friends,

Right after Ramadan, two of my cousins, who are also brothers, got married. They had a back to back marriage. One was in Islamabad and the other was in Lahore. Let me tell you, a Pakistani wedding is best experienced when you actually go through the whole planning and attending experience. Sometimes I hear about someone getting married, and I wish them well yada yada yada. But when I went through the planning experience of my two cousin’s weddings, I gained a whole new experience, albeit a very fun and wild experience.

A Pakistani wedding is broken down into the following basic rituals:

1.Dholki:

This is when each side of the family have a get together at their place where friends and close famiy members are invited to have a small party for the groom. A drum is traditionally played by the girls and there is a lot of singing too. Girls also prepare dances to the latest Indian Bollywood songs. In my cousin’s case, even he did some dances. A Dholki can last from one day to an entire week,where each evening of the week people would gather at the groom’s house for dinner. I, along with other cousins, were more in it to help my cousin out with the planning: distribution of wedding cards, arranging for dinner, taking care of guests, making sure clothes for the groom are all set and ready among other chores. This is my friend Maria and I!

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2. Milad

This is held traditionally a day before the Nikaah (See No. 3 for Nikaah). Milad is when the women of the family and extended family get together and have a joint prayer for the groom. In my cousin’s case, there was a lecture from one of my aunt about how the groom’s wife and her mother-in-law should live peacefully according to Islamic regulations. My sister, who has an impeccable Arabic accent, read some verses from the Quran. Those sitting at the back end thought that my cousin had arranged for an Arabic woman to come read the passages from the Quran. There is dinner after the lecture and prayer. Men traditionally don’t attend the lecture, and usually come to the Milad right when dinner is being served! Lol! Below is my cousin getting married (center) and my other cousin.

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3. Nikaah

Nikaah is when the groom (inside the mosque) and the bride (inside her home) sign documents in the presence of witnesses and the imam from the mosque. Once the documents are signed, the groom and bride are married according to Islamic regulation. It became somewhat a lengthy procedure for my cousin, who had to listen to the imam ask him certain questions, and he had to reply in the affirmative. Signatures of the witnesses are also needed, and they make a verbal confession too of being witnesses to the wedding. We also had to listen to a small lecture from the imam on what constitutes a successful marriage. Once the groom and bride sign the documents, congratulations are in order for both the guy and the girl. Sweets are distributed to all the guests. Dinner is served as well!

4. Mehndi (Henna)

Mehndi is held the following day after Nikaah (some people may choose to combine the Nikaah and Mehndi on the same day). Mehndi is where the groom and his family carry henna to the girl’s house. Before we entered the girl’s house, myself with three other cousins, wearing black shalwar kameez, led the procession by dancing the traditional bhangra! We were welcomed by the girls throwing petals and flowers on us. It was so embarassing for me as I never do such dances, but everyone pushed me into it and so I went ahead with the whole thing! Lol! All the guys from the groom’s side wore black shalwar kameez, with a yellow cloth around them. The groom and the bride are sittin in the middle on stage.

Mehndi

The groom is made to sit at the front of the area, and the girl’s side of the family come up to him, give him monetary gifts and apply henna to his hands and feed him sweets. Traditionally, the bride is not supposed to come out, and sits at the back, under a veil. However, in this case, everyone knew the girl, so the girl was sitting on the stage as well. Friends/ cousins from the guy’s side, as well as the girl’s side have prepared choreographed dances, which they perform. Mehndi is usually the most colorful, energetic, lively and fun event from all. In my cousin’s case, we were there till 3am! One interesting thing I noticed was that the groom doesn’t shave today so he can have a smoother shave tomorrow for the wedding day and look cleaner and smarter! :-) My cousin and my sister after having danced on the stage. (Note, I didn’t shave today so I too could have a clean shave the following day. Lol!)

Mehndi

5. Baarat

The groom is prepared before leaving for the wedding. Sehra Bandi is a small ritual which is performed on the groom. A garland of flowers is placed around him, and his face is covered with hanging flowers too.

Sehra Bandi

Then everyone from the groom’s side leave in a massive procession of cars for the wedding. The bride’s family greets the groom’s family and again, the groom is made to sit on the stage. Photo opportunities galore, and families take turn to sit on stage and have pictures taken. Later, the bride is brought in the hall, dressed in her awesome wedding dress. The couple sit on stage for pictures, are greeted by guests and given gifts. Of course dinner is a major event in itself as well. Lol. One small fun game the bride’s friends/ cousin play is snatch away the groom’s shoe, and demand money for it. So the guy’s side and the girl’s side ensue in a healthy and fun battle of negotiation of how much money to be given to get the shoe back. After this game, the father of the groom asks formally to the father of the bride if they can have the permission to take the bride home. A lot of crying occurs as the bride is sent away with the groom (even if the bride lives in the same city as her family, the parents and family still cry as symbollicaly the daughter has left her home to be with the groom). The couple go to their hotel suite, which we decorated before coming to the wedding with chocolates, flowers and candles!

Wedding

6. Walima

Walima is where the groom’s family host a dinner for the bride’s family and guest. Again, it’s an opportunity for the couple fo sit on stage for more pictures, and another opportunity for guests to have more food! And yes, that’s Ali Zafar the pop singer standing at the extreme right! :-) He was a hit among the crowd! And you can spot me very easily…since I am the tallest! Lol!

Walima

I have explained very briefly the entire Pakistani wedding process. The wedding can very from family to family, some have more functions, some have less. Some are elaborate, some are simple. Some hire professional pop stars for Mehndi, others don’t even have such a function. However, to truly enjoy the Pakistani wedding experience, one has to be behind the scenes as well as a guest to get the entire feel of it. The one most annoying thing for me throughout the entire 3 weeks for the two weddings was random people asking me: when are you getting married!? Argh! :-)

 Mansur

Published in: on November 28, 2007 at 9:13 pm Comments (1)

World Performing Arts Festival

Hi people,

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If you are in Lahore nowadays, make sure to check out the World Performing Arts Festival, the largest Arts Festival of its kind in the entire Asia region. Lahore is the cultural capital of Pakistan, and this World Performing Arts festival solidifies Lahore’s status of being the forefront in the evolution of the city’s culture. The festival is being held from 22nd November to 2nd December, and includes movies from world over, puppetry shows, and theatres from around the world. The highlight of each evening is the music festival in the main auditorium. We are all going on Thursday night for the Fusion Music Night. We were planning on going to the World Music Night, but several other people I know said the Fusion Night is better. Fusion Night includes:

Cankisou (Czech Republic)
Mithu and Goonga Saien (Pakistan)
Sain Zahoor (Pakistan)
Fawzia Afzal / Suriya Khanum (Pakistan/ USA)
Wahab Shah (Australia/ Pakistan)
Sher Miandad (Pakistan)
Pete Pankee (Germany)
Arieb Azhar (Pakistan)
22 Drumming Act (Punjab)
Shafquat Ali (Pakistan)

 I don’t know a lot of these, but from what I heard from others, they are guaranteed to give us three hours of awesome music! Here are some pictures from the Festival. Here is the complete Programme— if you are in Lahore, then this is a must see opportunity to get the best of “culture!”

 Mansur

Published in: on November 27, 2007 at 7:21 pm Leave a Comment

Lychee Lassi

Hello friends,

There has been so much going on in the Life of Mansur, I just didn’t get enough time to come online to write up. I was somewhat disappointed with Blogger, and that contributed to my lack of writing. But I am excited to be on WordPress and am looking to write up everything that’s been going on.

One thing I wanted to write about the Lychee Lassi concert we all went to. Lychee Lassi is a group from Berlin, Germany who produce fusion music: jazz, hip-hop, house and funk music. Who would have thought a concert of this kind would be happening in Lahore? I managed to round up eight people (five people backed out at last minute) and we all went there in three cars! I had purchased the tickets a day before. Lychee Lassi was held at Peeru’s Cafe, which is fast becoming one of my favorite place to have dinner. Lychee Lassi is simply a local traditional drink, where fruits are mixed, hence the name taken on by this group who fuse a varitey of musical genres.

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The drive out to Peeru’s Cafe is about 45 minutes, and with four people with me in my car, we could not do anything but laugh! My two younger cousins knew so many jokes and they kept us entertained throughout the drive. The weather was quite pleasant as we exited from our car once we reached our destination. There were a lot of people, and once we entered the outdoor auditorium, the stage was set for the show. About 200 people were there, mostly young university aged students, with a couple of young adults here and there.

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A drummer, a bass guitarist, another guitarist and a man working on the records a la DJ walked up on stage and set the mood for the evening. The consistent beat of the drum, the strumming of the guitars fused with the jazz music emanating from the DJ’s records. Everyone in the audience got into the mood, and many were tapping their feet, or clapping their hands and some were even swaying to the music. It was the kind that set you into a trance. They continued to play for about an hour and a half. The highlight for me was when they played their version of Blackstreet’s No Diggity. A rap song fused to jazz music. Awesome combination!

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We didn’t stay right till the end as the food coming from the cafe got to us and we decided to have dinner. Let me tell you, the steak at Peeru’s Cafe is one of the best you can get in Lahore! It was nearly midnight when we realized we needed to head home. I drove while everyone in the car slept!

Lychee Lassi was an evening well spent. I hope to attend more of these cross-cultural events!

Mansur

Published in: on November 26, 2007 at 9:35 pm Leave a Comment

Made the Switch!

Hello people,

So I have finally made the switch over from Blogger to WordPress. I hope this proves to be a better blogging platform for me as Blogger has been giving me a lot of issues lately. I know several other bloggers who have moved out from Blogger to other platforms, and it’s about time I did it too. Come back for more posts here!

Mansur

Published in: on November 25, 2007 at 6:19 pm Comments (2)